Do It Now

Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know it was coming, or are too rigid to depart from their routine. I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on I've tried to be a little more flexible. How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn't suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does the word 'refrigeration' mean nothing to you? How often have your kids dropped in to talk, but sat there in silence while you watched Jeopardy on televison? I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, "How about going to lunch in a half hour"? She would gas up and stammer, "I can't, I have clothes on the line, My hair is dirty, I wish I'd have known yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain, or I was still in bed." And my personal favorite: "It's Monday." Well..... she died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together. Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect! We'll go back and visit grandparents when we get Stevie toilet trained. We'll entertain when we replace  the living room carpeting. We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college. (Or in our case, the first honeymoon.) Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of "I'm going to,"  "I plan on," and "Someday when things are settled down a bit." When anyone calls my 'seize the moment'  friend, she is open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind for new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes, and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of rollerblades, and trade an elevator for a bungee cord. My lips had not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream.  It's just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula, and eliminate the digestive process. The other day I stopped the car and bought a triple decker ice cream cone. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy. Now.... go on and have a nice day.  Do something you want to do... not something on your 'Should Do' list. If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting? Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I sent this to you... Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry-go-round or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask "How are you?" do you really hear their reply? When the day is done, do you lie in your bed the the next hundred chores running through your head? Ever told your child, "We'll do it tomorrow." And in your haste , not seen his sorrow?  Ever lost touch? Let a good friendship die? Just call to say "Hi"?  When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened gift... thrown away... Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over!!!

Do not forget little kindnesses, and do not remember little faults

Don't miss the colors of the rainbow while searching for the pot of gold.